March 19, 2025

Boundaries: When to Share, Who to Share With and How Much to Share. [episode with Deb and I]

Boundaries: When to Share, Who to Share With and How Much to Share.  [episode with Deb and I]

In this episode, Dr. Brad Miller and Deb Krier dive into the sensitive topic of boundaries when sharing personal information, especially in the context of cancer. Dr. Miller reflects on his experiences with individuals who either over-shared or kept their struggles private, stressing the importance of balancing openness and discretion. He shares two personal stories, one about Phyllis, who kept her cancer diagnosis private, and another about Harry, who was more open with his condition. Through these examples, Dr. Miller illustrates how different approaches to sharing can impact the healing process and relationships.

Deb Krier adds to the conversation by discussing the importance of considering the purpose behind sharing personal details and the audience with whom you are sharing them. She highlights the challenges of over-sharing, especially on platforms like Facebook, where individuals often feel overwhelmed by unsolicited advice. Deb and Dr. Miller emphasize the need for authenticity, grace, and sensitivity when navigating these boundaries, encouraging listeners to build authentic relationships based on trust and respect.


They also provide practical tips for handling different stages of cancer treatment and sharing information appropriately, focusing on community support. Ultimately, the conversation underscores the balance between sharing emotional support and maintaining personal space, offering valuable insights into building strong, respectful relationships during difficult times.


Brad Miller’s Links:

Website: https://cancerandcomedy.com/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfP2JvmMDeBzbj3mziVGJUw

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robertbradleymiller/